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Bum advice for married men? Burned by a bad relationship? Why gay men
act the same?
Dear Lena,
You gave bum advice to “Happy Married Bi.” As a gay man
who prefers men in relationships (either with another man or a woman),
it’s hard to say who’s using whom. I’ve found that
my best sexy fun partners aren’t men I’d ordinarily hang out
with socially, while the men whose company I enjoy are either lousy
in bed or our sexual tastes are not compatible and compromise just leaves
everyone unsatisfied. Besides, if you’re just looking to get off,
what difference does it make whether he’s in a relationship with
someone else? I’m rather happy to leave his partner to handle
his care, feeding and baggage. I don’t want to marry him, I just
want to f**k him. Maybe you should add sexy fun Buddies: Erotic Stories About
sexy fun Without Strings to your reading list.
--Buddy, not a Boyfriend
Okay, let’s take a deep breath, calm down and untangle that knot
in your tighty-whiteys. I have answered this part of that question.
If you just want to get off, then do it. Knock yourself out. But, if
you start revealing details about your life and self, you are setting
a stage for something else beyond a casual, one-time sexy fun thing. You
forget that the original question was, “Why do gay guys go crazy
when I tell them I am married.” And the answer remains, because
you set the stage for one thing and then you change the focus. You cannot
have your cake and eat it too.
Dear Lena,
I guess that I just don’t have any understanding of the whole
dating/relationship thing, and it’s bugging me. I somehow ended
up in what I thought was a relationship. It turns out that I was wrong.
The guy was a liar and user. He was lying to and doing three other guys
at the same time as me. Needless to say I was angry and hurt when I
found out, and finally got the courage to get this guy out of my life.
The problem is that now, any time I meet a guy with any potential at
all, I completely lose interest and run. It just seems like I’m
wasting my time and ought to just accept that for some of us romance
and love just aren’t meant to be.
--Burnt and Confused
Oh, despondent one. Put that bastard out of your head. You cannot allow
his sins to carry on to the next relationship. Each person is responsible
for themselves. By running away from a potential mate, you are allowing
that lying user to win and depriving yourself of happiness. Do not wallow
in things that “aren’t meant to be.” Open yourself
up to the opportunity and things that are -- you only limit yourself
by turning away others because you believe it’s your lot in life
to be alone. The next time you have the urge to run, plant your feet
firmly and meet life head on.
Dear Lena,
Most gay men I meet, whether in bars or in chat rooms or at parties,
all seem the same. I don’t mind so much that they all look alike,
but I get annoyed with the herd mentality. Is it an unwritten law that
gay men must like Cher and Madonna or think the same way on political
issues? Maybe I prefer to listen to Creed or Kid Rock. And maybe I do
agree with Republicans on some issues. Why must I get berated by the
herd for thinking on my own? Gay men like to pride themselves on being
“cutting edge” and “creative.” Don’t you
think it’s about time they started acting like it? Whatever happened
to individuality? Remember when gay men used to celebrate that?
--Mold Breaker
Well, Miss Thing is not happy and she’s going to let you know
it! I agree we should celebrate our diversity instead of clinging to
our likenesses. When you have a group that’s been oppressed and
ostracized by the rest of humanity, it becomes clear why we cling to
our similarities, and gay men have done so for years -- have you heard
of the clone look in the seventies? Within our own group we should take
more enjoyment from our diversity. So be who you are honey, and be proud
of it because at the end of the day, you are the only person you have
to answer to. But Republicans? Come on now!
Truly Yours,
Lena
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